SB 10.5.28
pumsas tri-vargo vihitah
suhrdo hy anubhavitah
na tesu klisyamanesu
tri-vargo ’rthaya kalpate
Translation by His Divine Grace A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Srila Prabhupada:
When one’s friends and relatives are properly situated, one’s religion, economic development and sense gratification, as described in the Vedic literatures, are beneficial. Otherwise, if one’s friends and relatives are in distress, these three cannot offer any happiness.
Purport by His Divine Grace A. C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Srila Prabhupada:
Vasudeva regretfully informed Nanda Maharaja that although he had his wife and children, he could not properly discharge his duty of maintaining them and was therefore unhappy.