bhratur virupa-karanam yudhi nirjitasya

 prodvaha-parvani ca tad-vadham aksa-gosthyam

duhkham samuttham asaho ’smad-ayoga-bhitya

 naivabravih kim api tena vayam jitas te

 

Translation: 

 

When your brother, who had been defeated in battle and then disfigured, was later killed during a gambling match on Aniruddha’s wedding day, you felt unbearable grief, yet out of fear of losing Me you spoke not a word. By this silence you have conquered Me.

 

Purport: 

 

Here Lord Krsna refers to an event that will be described in the next chapter. Thus Krsna’s talks with Rukmini must have taken place after the marriage of Aniruddha.